ON RELATIONSHIPS
Relationships don't come to life, or don't work or are interrupted by chance because everyone lives the fruits of his consciousness. The nature of your life is dictated by the nature of the concept that you hold of yourselves and that is an unchangeable and eternal law because there is no cause for this world save in consciousness! Which in Scriptures is called God, namely your awareness. If you are not aware of what you are, that is, the concept that you entertain of yourselves, you face the vicissitudes of life as victims of the fate, trying to foresee what the future will hold while the future is dictated by the nature of your awareness and therefore it is predictable and malleable in every respect, without exception.
Concerning relationships you always receive from others an attitude and a treatment equal to the concept that you have of yourselves and the reflection of what you entertain about the other person involved in the relationship, because your concept of yourselves is the lens through which you interpret the world and mold it because it's that concept to direct your imagination.
You will never be a priority for anyone if at first you don't become a priority for yourselves.
You cannot give others what you cannot conceive for yourselves because you lack those concepts and therefore they're unknown to you. Loving yourselves is thus the key to happy relationships, in every area.
Consequently, if a relationship is not harmonious it's useless to blame the other person because he has done nothing but your inner will.
What helps you to avoid to worsening the situation? Understand that your world is a copy of your inner work and grasp that it's your state of being that declares the nature of the relationships that you experience, therefore to recover that relationship, whatever type it can be, you have to feel love for yourselves and the other person. If you struggle to prove your reasons than you do not grab your responsibility in your life, you miss that the cause of your experience is the Self and not the outside, which is a mere reflection.
It would be worthwhile to use experiences as lessons for changing, maybe by checking and then eliminating those fears that lead the person to cyclical and convulsive reactions or mechanisms such as the fear of being left behind, betrayed, unloved, unaccepted, rejected, and so on, and that to operate a revision of those reactions in order to grant yourselves a future free from those events. The other person is always the mirror of one of your aspects, it's a master.
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